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1. Have you read the Qur’an?

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Every night, before going to bed, we recited al-Fatiha, the short first chapter of the Qur’an. I felt God was watching over me. My father, or more usually, my mother, would stand at the door, while my two brothers and I folded our arms and sat up in bed. We recited it at lightening speed in Arabic and English, then heads down, lights out. Sometimes I also added my own special prayer quietly to myself; “Please God, make everything alright” I was too tired to go through the details. God understood.

The only time we had to say the formal daily prayers was on special occasions, like a visit from Granddad, when we had to make a big show of religious piety for his benefit. After praying, my eldest sisters, Kamelia and Suzy showed me how to make Du’a (supplication) to ask God for anything I wanted.
“Hold your hands out and don’t leave any gaps!” Kamelia said.
“Why do I have to put my hands like that?” I asked.
“So that you can catch the presents God is sending you!” Kamelia answered.
I accepted that reply without question even though I could not see any presents. I was becoming familiar with God’s way of doing things. If I asked God for a bicycle, I knew it would not come immediately and perhaps may never come at all. It wasn’t God’s fault, it was my fault. I had been naughty in some way and didn’t deserve it. When I wanted something very badly I would try very hard to be good for as long as possible. I did that when I asked God to make mummy and daddy stop fighting. When they didn’t stop I knew it was because I wasn’t a good boy.

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As I got older, Islam receded further and further into the background and by the age of twelve, during the long hot summer of 1971, my only concern was to be like Marc Bolan. With my curly hair, velvet jacket and platform boots, I thought I looked like him too. A dab of glitter on my cheeks and I was away, pouting and prancing in front of the mirror to ‘Hot Love’ and ‘Get it On’. I drew pictures of him and Mickey Finn and stuck them on the wall of the bedroom I shared with my two brothers. Our bedroom became so covered in drawings and pictures of men in make-up and tight-fitting leotards from ‘Oh Boy!’ ‘Pop Swap’ and ‘Jackie’ that my father was convinced we were becoming queer.
“What on earth are all these homosexuals doing on your walls?”
“They’re not homosexuals.”
“Of course they are; just look at his eyes,” he said, pointing to a picture of Dave Hill, the guitarist from Slade.
I studied his eyes carefully, trying to determine exactly what it was that transmitted “HOMOSEXUAL” so plainly to my dad.
“They all wear glitter; it’s just for show!”
“I want you to take them down. Now!”
We did as we were told. One didn’t argue  with my father.

My father (far right) during the war against Israel 1948.

My father, Aziz (far right) during the war against Israel 1948.

Born to a wealthy Egyptian family, my father rarely talked about the country and culture he came from and wasn’t very religious. For a long time I never knew he was from Egypt. When he first came to England he called himself Jean Pierre and told everyone he was French. My mother, Mary Magson, was the daughter of Horace Magson, an accountant from Darlington. Her family were Methodists, but like my father, she wasn’t religious. The two of them met in Paris in 1951. He was studying at the University of Lausanne, while she was in the ATS where she’d driven ambulances during the War. After getting married they went to live in Egypt, but as a result of the 1952 revolution and the Suez Crisis, the British Government evacuated them along with other Anglo-Egyptian families. They were resettled in an old Tudor cottage in the middle of the Suffolk village of Coddenham, where I was born on the 12th of May, 1959, fifth child in a family of eight.

Mum in the ATS during WW2

We moved to Finchley in North London when I was 6 years old and that is where I spent most of my childhood and teenage years. During the 1960s it was a very white middle-class area and I soon became aware that we didn’t quite fit in. I hated telling someone my name. It was always the same reaction, an embarrassing silence and a confused or mocking expression. My class teacher once made a list of religious affiliations. When he called my name out I hesitated for a long time, which of course only attracted more attention. Eventually I whispered Muslim.
“What?” said my teacher.
“Muslim, sir.”
Some children sniggered. One boy insisted that ‘Muslim’ wasn’t a real religion at all and I had made it up. My siblings and I became a target for bigots and bullies. This wasn’t helped by my father’s insistence that we were to be withdrawn from school assemblies. I don’t really know why he wanted to withdraw us. I could better understand it if he had been religious, but the only effect it had was to confirm to everyone that we were ‘different’ and should be treated as such. Instead of listening to the parable of ‘The Little Red Hen’ or singing ‘All Things Bright and Beautiful’, which my father thought would infect my mind with Christianity, I was exposed to the delights of a pornographic novel which the older boy next to me was reading as we sat in the room assigned for those who opted out of assembly.

My father was full of paradoxes and contradictions. In some ways he was very liberal-minded and in other ways ultra-conservative. His attitude towards women was very old fashioned and he expected my mother to stay at home, cooking, cleaning and looking after his children and he became violent if he felt she wasn’t obeying his every command. After suffering for many years my mother eventually sued for divorce. The court battle over custody of the children was long and bitter.

Me & Diane 1978

Me & Diane 1978

At the age of 18 I started a degree in Sociology at the Polytechnic of North London, a hotbed of Marxists and Trotskyite student militants. I joined the Broad Left, one of the two main Socialist parties at North London Polytechnic and was appointed cartoonist for the college magazine, “Fuse”. Our main rival at the Polytechnic were The Socialist Workers Party and I drew many scathing caricatures of  the leadership, lampooning the ridiculous things they said, their lack of dress sense and poor personal hygiene. My cartoons were unanimously praised until I drew one criticising my own party – the Broad Left. The Editor took such offence that I was sacked on the spot. I had contravened the most basic rule of politics – stick to the party line. But I had never been one for sticking to any party line and my experience with left-wing student politics only served to alienate me from it. I became far more interested in how to ask Diane out on a date. Diane was a first year sociology student, like myself and we had become fairly good friends almost immediately. She had a bubbly and cheerful character that was easy to get on with. She loved football, enjoyed a good debate and we shared a similar taste in music.

After a few weeks of my shy and bumbling attempts to say something other than “Hi”, she asked me out.
“Fancy going to the Stapleton tonight? They’ve got a live band playing.”
“Yeah! What time?”
“Come over about eight.”
I was there at seven, in my best ripped jeans and smelling of Patchouli.
It was only a trip to the pub, but it was the start of my first relationship. We became constant companions and started sharing a flat together.

At the end of the first year we’d grown tired of boring lectures on Auguste Comte, Max Weber and Karl Marx. Both of us had been hoping that studying Sociology would be a creative experience, perhaps providing clues to the great questions of life. We were disappointed to find it was merely an exercise in regurgitating a selection of tedious books. We decided to drop-out and hitch-hike to Wales. We didn’t have much of a plan beyond that. After several days of picking psychedelic mushrooms in Aberystwyth, we made our way to her parent’s house in Warrington to decide what to do next.

Diane had once worked as a nurse in Calderstones Hospital for the physically & mentally  handicapped and she suggested we both get jobs there. Calderstones was set in a picturesque Lancashire village at the foot of, Pendle Hill, infamous for its association with burning witches during the Middle Ages. I thought it was a terrific idea and we rented a small caravan in a farmer’s field along the ridge of Pendle Hill itself. The caravan could only be reached by walking up a very long and steep road that began in the village and wound up into the mists of Pendle Hill. The caravan was in an isolated corner, surrounded by manure covered boggy fields, where the wind and the rain never ceased. I loved it, but Diane was not so keen, particularly after the night I saw a ghost. I was woken in the middle of the night by the sound of the caravan door banging. I looked up from my sleepy stupor towards the entrance and saw what looked like a young girl – perhaps in her early teens – standing at the foot of my bed. She looked as if she was wearing rags and had a sad smile on her face. She leant her head slightly onto the partition wall of the caravan and stared at me. I thought perhaps it was the farmer’s daughter, and I couldn’t understand why she would be out at this late hour, in freezing winter rain. Before I could lift my head up and say something a man in a three cornered hat appeared from behind her and ran through the caravan, past me and disappeared out the other side. I jumped up now and was calling out for Diane to wake up. The girl was gone and everything was quiet, apart from the wind. Diane was understandably freaked out and although I re-assured her that it was just a dream triggered by the local stories of witch burnings we’d heard along with the large amount of dope and alcohol we’d consumed, she didn’t want to stay in the caravan anymore. We moved out later and into a little flat in Blackburn.

It was now 1979, and I had close group of friends and a good social life. But under the surface I felt restless and unsure of my identity. This was highlighted now and again by the negative reaction of a few bigots, who made it clear that someone with a funny name and foreign religion, even though I wasn’t practicing, would never be accepted as English. A Charge Nurse, on a ward I worked on, took to calling me “Dirty Arab!” She started saying it from the moment she discovered my name. She wrote on my report that I was “Dirty, lazy and inefficient” something I only discovered much later when a sympathetic charge nurse showed me the report. None of what she said was true. She didn’t like me simply because my name was Hassan. There was no other reason. The irony was that, up until that point, I had never considered myself to be Arab.

Then a series of events caused me to re-think my views about the culture and religion I had tried hard to avoid. The first was the Islamic revolution in Iran. I remember watching the television coverage of running battles on the streets of Tehran, between the ordinary people and the heavily armed guard of the Shah. I found the images inspiring: defiant civilians rising up against the might of a tyrant. The revolutionary spirit of my student days had remained with me and I instinctively saw it as a people’s struggle against a powerful elite, but I was also aware the role religion was playing – a religion that I felt some connection to – albeit a weak one.

I was confronted with another example of the power of religion when my close friend John Shackleton returned from a camping trip to announce he was now a born-again Christian. It was an enormous shock, as he had always been so scornful of religion. Now he refused to come down to the pub with me or listen to music – apart from music about Jesus. He became annoyingly exultant about his faith and constantly attempted to convert me and Diane.
“Jesus loves you and wants to forgive you,” he said.
“But I haven’t done anything,” I said.
“We are all sinners. Jesus can restore you to how God wanted you to be.”
“Why? Did God make a mistake the first time round?”
The constant onslaught of religious fervour forced me to take a position on Christianity and religion in general, something I had not given a lot of thought to before. The more John explained things such as the Trinity, Original Sin, and Atonement, the more I knew these were concepts I could never believe in. The idea that God is “Three persons in One” and that man is born sinful because of the sin of another or that sins can be forgiven, not because of any meritorious act by the person themselves, but because someone else was nailed to a plank of wood, all conflicted with reason and my sense of justice. John joined a small community of born-again Christians a few miles away, but continued to visit us, praying we would be filled with the Holy Spirit.

I was unmoved by the idea of a Holy Spirit or any other supernatural power. I had always believed that this world was ‘what you see is what you get’ and had certainly never experienced anything mystical myself.  But in keeping with the religious theme of this chain of events, something mystical was about to happen to me. I had been camping at the Deeply Vale music festival in Lancashire with Diane, when we went for a walk up one side of the valley. As we stood at the top, I heard a sound I never expected to hear.
“Can you hear that?” I asked.
“What? I can’t hear anything.”
“It’s the Muslim call to prayer… Listen!” I said.
I could clearly hear the words “Ash-hadu an la ilaha illah, Ass-hadu anna Muhammad rasoolalllah!” (I bear witness there is no god but God, I bear witness that Muhammad is the prophet of God!) They resonated with a strange clarity above the hubbub of the festival below. Diane didn’t hear anything. I couldn’t understand why. Nor could I understand why someone was reciting the Muslim call to prayer at a music festival. I tried to think of a rational explanation, but couldn’t come up with one that convinced me. I began to feel that perhaps supernatural things did happen and that this may be my own personal wake-up call to faith.

A few months later I saw Cat Steven’s on television, giving a farewell concert. He had become a Muslim and was resigning from the music business, turning his back on fame and money in order to devote his life to his new-found faith. The public were mystified. Why would someone who had it all want to throw it away for religion? Religion wasn’t for cool people; it was for simple-minded, insecure people. Part of me also had the same reaction. But part of me felt inspired and proud. If such a creative and respected person like Cat Stevens saw something worthwhile in Islam, perhaps I, as someone born with an Islamic heritage, should take it more seriously myself.

The final episode in this series of events was when my father turned up unexpectedly on my doorstep to invite me to go with him to Egypt for a couple of weeks. I had not seen a great deal of my father since leaving his house. He had now moved to the village of Ramsbottom, where he had been appointed Head Teacher of a residential school. As I was living fairly near by, I took Diane to meet him. He took an instant dislike to Diane. She was an independent, strong-minded young woman who wasn’t afraid of saying what she thought. I liked that about her, but my father did not. He didn’t like women who answered back; it was against the natural order of things. Women were supposed to do what men told them – that’s the way my father believed God created them and that’s the way my father wanted it to stay. He set about trying to cause trouble between us in his usual way of oblique remarks, insinuations, snide jokes, claiming she was rude to him, and even accusing her of stealing from his house. I can’t be certain of whether his offer of a trip to Egypt was part of that effort. He had important business there regarding his father’s inheritance. But I suspect he also thought it a wonderful opportunity to get me away from Diane. I told myself it wouldn’t affect our relationship and that an all-expenses-paid holiday to Egypt was an offer I couldn’t refuse. I think subconsciously I was also feeling bored and restless. The area Diane and I had moved into on a newly built estate on the outskirts of Blackburn was dull and soulless. Our life had become full of routines and our relationship slipped into a rut. I was eager for a change of scenery – at least for two weeks.

Before driving to the airport, my father stopped by my sister Suzy’s house in London to say goodbye.
“What are you planning to do in Egypt, Hassan?” she asked.
“I was thinking about exploring the possibilities of studying Egyptology at the American University in Cairo.”
“Insha-Allah,” (God Willing) prompted Suzy .
“I don’t see why I should say that, Suzy,” I replied curtly. “Either I will study Egyptology, or I won’t. What has God got to do with it?”
“Nothing happens unless God wills it.”
“Does he will murderers to kill people?”
“He allows it to happen because he gives us free will,” replied Suzy.
“Well then, I don’t see why God should interfere with me studying Egyptology?”
“If you say so Hassan,” Suzy replied, wearily. I thought about what I had just said as we drove to the airport; it was a little arrogant and I regretted saying it.

It was a long flight with a two hour stop-over in a bleak East European city that seemed to be full of nothing but grey concrete rectangles and policemen with batons. I was relieved when we finally landed in Egypt. The moment I stepped off the plane and into the hot, moist atmosphere of Cairo airport, I realized I was in another universe. The scent of incense drifted through an intricate lattice window. Donkeys laden with vegetables weaved their way through an orchestra of blaring car horns; street merchants announced their wares with a siren cry that made me jump; men prayed on the pavement, wearing pyjamas; and women threw buckets of peelings from balconies above. It was a mad, chaotic patchwork quilt of smells, noise and colour and came as quite a culture shock to me. But despite its strangeness I soon felt at home. For the first time I didn’t have to hide or be embarrassed about my origins. Moreover, everyone admired and respected both halves of my cultural background.

Me in Egypt in the early 80s with my cousins.

Me & two cousins in Egypt, 1981

We stayed at my uncle’s house in Cairo. The Egyptians wore western clothes, watched dubbed Hollywood movies and had many of the modern conveniences found in England. But as I sat on the replica 18th Century French furniture, a loudspeaker in the street outside began bellowing the call to prayer. This triggered a wave of prayer calls that slowly unfurled across the Cairo rooftops and into the distance. Even on television, Clark Gable was cut off in mid flow, as a sign came up in Arabic, announcing the evening prayer. When everyone got up to pray, I was left sitting alone at the table, I felt a little uncomfortable.

After prayer my cousin Nihal, who had been helping my aunty fry some food in the kitchen, came in carrying a steaming dish.
“You like beetles?”
“Er… I’ve never had them!” I said, feeling a little queasy.
“I like them too much!” She put the plate on the table. “Especially I like Paul; he’s too cute!”
“Oh… .”  I said with a sigh of relief, “Yeah I like them, but they split up a few years ago, you know!” Egyptians loved everything British and knew a great deal about the UK, though their information seemed to be about a decade old.
“Split up?”
“They don’t play together anymore.”
“Oh? Why?”
“Well bands do that after a while… .”
“Georgie Best!” interrupted Hamdy, giving me the thumbs up. “Manchester United! Good.”
“Well I support Spurs actually”
“Sopurs? What is Sopurs?”
“Tottenham Hotspur – they’re a football team.”
Nihal showed me a picture in an Egyptian newspaper of Ayatollah Khomeini hugging a little girl. “Awww, he is such a good man!”
“The people seem to love him.”
“He says there is no difference between Sunni and Shi’ah. He says we are all Muslims and should be united.”
Nihal was a very strong minded, independent woman who took her freedom to do as she wanted for granted. She didn’t wear a headscarf and had very western habits and tastes. Yet she seemed completely comfortable about identifying with traditional, orthodox views – something most Egyptians I met seemed totally at ease with despite being relatively westernised.
“Eat, Hassan!” said Aunty Ola as she sat next to me. “We made you English food: Fish and Chips!”
“Do you say your prayers, Hassan?” said my uncle.
“To be honest, no, I don’t.”
“Oh you must pray! Prophet Muhammad said that ‘Prayer is the key to Paradise.”
“I’m not sure I really believe in all that. I mean why does God need us to pray?”
“God doesn’t need us to pray. But we need to pray. To give thanks and seek His help.”
“I still don’t see why we have to give thanks or ask for help through prayer.”
“Have you read the Qur’an, Hassan?”
“A bit.”
Uncle Fouad took a book from the shelf.
“Here’s an English translation for you. I want you to promise me you will read it.”
I was reluctant to promise something I didn’t want to do, but as I was a guest in his house I could hardly refuse. I thought I could read a few pages then politely put it to one side.
“Thanks. OK, I will.”
“Insha-Allah,” prompted Uncle Fouad.
“Insha-Allah,” I replied.

The next day my father and uncle had gone out, leaving me at home with Aunty Ola. So I picked up the Qur’an, as promised, and began to read. To my surprise I found I couldn’t put it down. The Qur’an is not like any ordinary book. It doesn’t follow any of the conventions of standard prose. It has no definite beginning or end. There is no plot to follow and no neat resolution. It seems to jump rather abruptly from one account to another. Even its style changes with little warning, from a steady narrative to fast paced rhyming prose. Yet I found it strangely irresistible.

“Alif Lam Mim.”
I looked up at Aunty Ola who was quietly sitting smoking a cigarette as she read a magazine full of beautiful women strutting down a cat walk.
“What does Alif Lam Mim mean?”
“Nobody knows.” She smiled. “Some chapters of the Qur’an begin with letters of the alphabet. Scholars have tried to explain them. But nobody knows for sure.”
“You mean it’s a mystery?”
“Yes.”
I liked mysteries.

“God is the Light of the heavens and the earth. The Parable of His Light is as if there were a Niche and within it a Lamp: the Lamp enclosed in Glass: the glass like a brilliant star: Lit from a blessed Tree, an Olive, neither of the East nor of the West, whose oil is well-nigh luminous, though fire scarce touched it: Light upon Light!” (24:35)”

When my servants ask you about me, (say) I am indeed close and answer the prayer of the one who calls on me.” (2:186)

“We created man and We know what his soul whispers to him. We are nearer to him than his jugular vein.” (50:16)

“Wherever you turn your face, there is God’s presence. God is all-Pervading.” (2:115)

“Do not turn away from men with pride, nor walk arrogantly through the earth, but be moderate in your pace and lower your voice.” (31:18 )

“Treat with kindness your parents and kindred, and orphans and those in need; speak fair to the people; be steadfast in prayer; and practice regular charity.” (2:83)

“We made you into nations and tribes so that you may get to know one other. Indeed the best among you, in the sight of God, is the best in conduct.” (49:13)

I began to cry. I felt silly and I tried to hide my tears from Aunty Ola. But I couldn’t stop. I felt a strange force deep within. I was certain it was the gentle and loving presence of God speaking to me. It was as though a veil had been lifted and I had discovered the truth I’d been searching for ever since I was a child. It was a deeply spiritual and emotional time for me. I can barely recognise the Qur’an as quoted by the media today, with its harsh and severe passages. I never saw such verses at the time. It’s not that they weren’t there, but they never spoke to me in a literal way.

I did make a trip to the American University, but the head of the Egyptology Department wasn’t in at the time, and I didn’t go back. I’d lost interest. I spent most of my two weeks in Egypt just reading the Qur’an, with the occasional trip to meet other members of my newly discovered extended family. There, also, the conversations invariably turned to religion.
“A friend of mine says that only by believing in Jesus can I be saved, because he died for our sins.”
“Islam says the opposite,” said Magdi. “The Qur’an says:

“Whosoever follows the right path, benefits his own soul and whosoever goes astray harms himself. No soul shall bear the burden of another.”(17:15)

“Islam is the religion of our ‘Fitrah’ (inborn disposition); it is in complete harmony with our natural instinct.”
“Then why can’t everyone see it?”
“The prophet said; “Men are asleep and only when they die they awake.” That’s the nature of this world, Hassan. If everything was clear and easy, then there would be no test.”
Magdi gave me a book of Hadith (sayings of Prophet Muhammad) which I read from cover to cover. One hadith in particular touched me deeply:
“(God says) I am as my servant thinks of me. I am with him when he remembers me. If he comes to me a hand’s span; I come to him an arm’s length. If he comes to me one arm’s length, I draw near to him by two outstretched arms. If he comes to me walking, I come to him running.” (Bukhari)

When it came time to return to England I didn’t want to leave and vowed I’d be back soon. It had been an amazing experience and I felt a sense of excitement, as though a magical door had been opened. I had finally found God. I came back to England full of zeal and determination to learn more about my new-found faith. Diane was shocked by my sudden conversion and felt sure it was just a passing fad. She humoured me, hoping I’d come to my senses. But all I could talk about was Islam. I insisted we stop sleeping together, explaining that Islam forbids sex before marriage. I stopped drinking and smoking, and I began to pray regularly. I lectured Diane about the Day of Judgment and Heaven and Hell and the sayings of Prophet Muhammad, trying desperately to convince her of Islam. Eventually we both realized we were wasting our time. Diane was not interested in becoming a Muslim and I wasn’t going through a fad. Our relationship was over. I moved out of our flat, leaving behind, amongst other things, my record collection and paintings. I had no need for idolatrous distractions from the path of Allah.

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  1. Stat Quo said, on November 30, 2008 at 11:54 pm

    Really loved reading this, can’t wait for the next chapter!

  2. whatabastor said, on December 1, 2008 at 11:38 am

    I hope chapter 2 is not far away

  3. The Wise One said, on December 7, 2008 at 1:15 pm

    Whatabastor, you are here as well?

    Quite interesting. It seems you are attracting even ex Muslims Arabs!
    I’m enjoying this.

  4. Al said, on December 10, 2008 at 3:51 pm

    You have a real talent; it is a real good read.

  5. Peter Hearty said, on January 1, 2009 at 3:43 am

    Beautifully written. You are a person with deep feelings and great passion. Even though I know very little about Islam, and have only ever shared this kind of religious revelation in reverse, I can feel your joy and enthusiasm at your, then new found, faith.

  6. Shaheen Khan said, on January 11, 2009 at 11:39 am

    The Wise One said, “Quite interesting. It seems you are attracting even ex Muslims Arabs!
    I’m enjoying this.”

    I’m an ex Muslim Persian.

  7. Anonymous said, on January 21, 2009 at 7:11 pm

    iM waiting!

  8. abooali said, on January 21, 2009 at 8:04 pm

    What are you waiting for, Anonymous?

  9. prep4md said, on January 25, 2009 at 10:07 pm

    “I began to cry … I felt a strange force deep within. I was certain it was the gentle and loving presence of God speaking to me.”

    Why do so many people feel that? Isn’t that proof that it is right? What do you think of it in retrospect?

  10. Ibraheem said, on August 15, 2009 at 11:22 pm

    “Whoever Allah guides, there is none to misguide. And whoever Allah leaves to go astray, there is none to guide.”

    I needn’t say any further.

  11. Meya said, on August 19, 2009 at 10:31 am

    I CAN’T believe you’re not a muslim anymore.
    I’m pretty ashamed of you….
    In fact. VERY

  12. KafirsWin said, on September 4, 2009 at 5:26 pm

    Beautiful work. I hope you dont get silenced by your “religious” ex-brothers. My respect and best wishes will always be with you. Peace and God bless (even that you are an agnostic)!

  13. JB Moon said, on September 8, 2009 at 1:55 pm

    Your writings are very intersting.

    Your articles provide essenstials in understading the processe of personal “Islamization”.

    I am happy to see you leaving Islam.

    The fruits of Islam are the hardcore of Islam.

    Exposed Islam cannot endure but will perish forever.

  14. Anonymous said, on September 8, 2009 at 9:27 pm

    I began to cry. I felt silly and I tried to hide my tears from Aunty Ola. But I couldn’t stop. I felt a strange force deep within. I was certain it was the gentle and loving presence of God speaking to me. It was as though a veil had been lifted and I had discovered the truth I’d been searching for ever since I was a child. It was a deeply spiritual and emotional time for me. I can barely recognise the Qur’an as quoted by the media today, with its harsh and severe passages. I never saw such verses at the time. It’s not that they weren’t there, but they never spoke to me in a literal way.

    i couldnt of said it better myself, akhie i think what we all felt was iman (faith) at the moment and i also had lost that and feel quite depressed at times, but still am a muslim and trying to get that spirituality back, i think distractions had led you to be an agnostic, what you need is to reassure yourself that allah exists, watch and read the miricles signs etc become enlightened! again when i read of such verses signs miracles and watch insparational vids on youtube that increase my iman tenfold i just become inlove with islam all over again, it is the true happiness in this world brother ill make dua tonight that you are guided in the str8 path. i am from london aswell and why i like your stories so much is because i can relate to quite a few of them and understand where your coming from.

  15. abooali said, on September 8, 2009 at 9:57 pm

    Thank you for your comment, Anonymous – I wish you all the best.

    Hassan.

  16. Randum Lee Surched said, on October 31, 2009 at 3:38 am

    “Whoever Allah guides, there is none to misguide. And whoever Allah leaves to go astray, there is none to guide.”

    I guess supposedly we have free will but God chooses to guide some of and screw the rest of us over
    cool

  17. Francis said, on December 27, 2009 at 12:06 am

    “What does Alif Lam Mim mean?”

    If this refers to the same thing..

    ‘…while the letters A L R to be found at the beginning of Surahs 10, 11, 12, 14, 15 are a Syriac abbreviation meaning “The Lord said to me”.’

    From an article on Inarah Institute for Research on Early Islamic History
    http://www.iheu.org/node/3331

    Learning tons from your vids.

  18. Chuck Taylor said, on February 18, 2010 at 11:33 am

    tis’ was a nice read. can’t wait for chapter 2!

  19. Nasim Samad said, on July 8, 2010 at 1:12 pm

    Mashallah! I think it would be better if you were to make an audio version of this and post it on youtube under it’s own channel, that way you will receive a massive amount of responses. By the way I’m 18, I’m from West London, I’m Muslim NOT A TERRORIST :).

  20. hassan said, on July 8, 2010 at 4:17 pm

    Thanks for the comment, Naseem – not sure if I will get round to that though.

  21. Al-Razi said, on September 3, 2010 at 3:57 pm

    Did you ever start questioning whether the ghost at Pendle Hill could have been a shaytanic jinn that chose you immerse yourself in Islam and then turn you away from it, ultimately to make you help other Muslims who have concerns about their faith to be in even more turmoil?

    I ask this because, any Muslim that starts questioning things are always told “It’s shaytan, evil jinns or your qareen putting these things in your head or whispering them to you”.

  22. 〇rlandο Gοdhand〇 said, on July 22, 2011 at 9:01 am

    Man alive, you look so… COOL in 1978! Like a young Tom Baker version of Doctor Who.

  23. Salina said, on August 11, 2011 at 5:43 am

    Wonderful read as I consider my own path to conversion… and my new path to discover things spiritual…

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    I’m re-reading this wonderful blog. It’s been a few years. I found myself adrift a few years back, and your blog became my anchor. I got my bearings and then found land. Today I am lost at sea again. I have ended up at your blog by sheer happenstance. I will finish the blog tonight. My only regret is that I’m missing a bottle of red wine for the journey ahead.


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